The hangzhou nanny fire case

Yesterday, it was the first seven...

The picture shows the father of three dead children

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At the moment, however, except for mourning the dead, the victim's family and many of the same life in hangzhou greentown blue qianjiang district owner, also continue to cross-examine developer greentown, such a question: why do they spent tens of millions of buying a person of extraordinary powers curtilage, cheap nfl hats, and high property costs per month, but it has not been in when they meet danger, give them a sense of security.

Among them, the families of the victims who accused the property security guards of claiming that there was no one in the house where the fire broke out, which led to the delay in the rescue. But more owners were alarmed by the fact that the property had to notify them in a "raw" way of knocking on the door, without warning that they were on fire.

However, greentown on June 22, in addition to the fire occurred the same day has given a brief response, no any subsequent, the response is claimed to have fire control facilities are operating normally, after it refused to give any explanation, for the owners to fire departments such as the results of a survey.

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What else can we do with the victims of the hangzhou nannies?

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Online to emerge after a green city group within the basic process and "hangzhou 6.22 fire accident report", which revealed the mansion's floor is not installed the fire alarm, only fire alarm; But said after the fire, alarm is normal work, notify the security, fire control broadcast also normal boot, just because the owner was fast asleep, and the sound insulation effect is good, did not hear the fire broadcasting, arranged from door knocking at the door, check the security team, evacuees.

In addition, the report said the local government confirmed the fire disposal work in green city, saying it was because of the rapid reaction of green city that it did not cause more deaths.

What can we do about the victims of the hangzhou nanny fire victims' first seven?

However, the "briefings" did not quell the doubts of the families of the dead and other owners. Instead, they intensified their discontent and attacked the group. The reason is simple: four people died in the fire, ​cheap jerseys, but the "report on the situation" did not mention the tragic result, nor did it express condolences to the victims.

Of course, this may be because green city feels that the criminal case caused by arson is irrelevant. But it was not until yesterday the victims of the "seven", in the face of pressure from family members and the public, greentown group is no longer on the website, the official weibo and WeChat channels made any response to the content of the public and the family members, no more mourned the content even the relevant contents of the fire, the strategy is clearly inappropriate.

The picture is from the microblog of the relatives of the dead

As a result, online criticism of greentown has intensified. Geng has also written an article calling on greentown to respond to the public, but it is regrettable that there has been no active response from greentown today.

The fear and anxiety of the owner of the green city blue qianjiang community have not dissipated. A village resident told uprightness elder brother, they did not notice after the fire, the hangzhou's most upscale residential area in each layer of households only elevator and former nanny elevator has two smoke fire alarm, although also is equipped with fire hydrant, but some of the fire hydrant door opens up very laborious, security guards are broken into half a day.

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Video screenshot of the security guard in green city is trying to open a fire hydrant door, from netizen @xu guanhua micro blog

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At the same time, there is no smoke alarm or automatic sprinkler system in the household.

Blunt elder brother query related information and consulting professionals, at present our country law mandatory only office buildings and public places more populated area to install smoke alarm and automatic sprinkler system, housing is not mandatory.

So developers will not be able to give households a fire system that is already ubiquitous in homes in western countries such as Britain and America.

, of course, the Chinese high lampblack cooking methods, as well as for house is beautiful and the trouble reason, many commercial housing buyers oneself also doesn't support in the house to install smoke alarm and automatic sprinkler system.

What else can we do with the victims of the hangzhou nannies?

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However, after a nanny arson, June 22, hangzhou, under the drive of anxiety and panic, live in blue qianjiang district of many owners have begun to own tens of millions of homes without these devices.

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At the same time, also appeared online about whether it should be called for countries to modify relevant laws and regulations, mandatory least residents of high-rise residential buildings must be equipped with a smoke alarm and automatic fire extinguishing equipment. After all, the fire data of the past five years show that the victims of China's fire have mainly concentrated in the homes of ordinary residents, with the 2016 data showing that the fire killed 1,266 people and injured 713 people. The fire destroyed 107 people and injured 134 people. The factory fire killed 41 people and injured 55; Traffic tools fire killed 17 people and injured 30 people; There were 12 people and 22 injured in the fire.

In fact, there have been some scholars in the past few years who have called for China to adjust its rules and regulations, Wholesale jerseys, to learn that the homes of at least high-rise residential buildings are equipped with a smoke alarm and automatic fire-extinguishing equipment.

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What else can we do with the victims of the hangzhou nannies?

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What else can we do with the victims of the hangzhou nannies?

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However, a fire professional interviewed by geng was different. He believes that anxious owners or developers can of course install independent smoke alarms in their homes. After all, there is no mistake. But a more expensive automatic fire extinguishing system is much harder to popularize.

Hangzhou nanny arson after all, he said, is artificial outlet, if because of the extreme occasional case will modify the laws and regulations, improve the fire cost of the building, and even cause against the owner of the dispute, some wandering.

He also said that, in fact, in addition to the very occasional arson, a lot of fire in the residence can be avoided in advance, because although the fire can be sudden, but fire hidden trouble is fixed. It is more meaningful to eliminate these hidden dangers in advance and learn to save themselves in emergency situations than to explore whether it is mandatory to install automatic fire extinguishing systems.

What else can we do with the victims of the hangzhou nannies?

Fire in 2016, according to China's most fire at night, and given priority to with electrical use undeserved, but the main reason for death is not burned to death, but with the hangzhou of arson four the cause of death of the deceased, give priority to with suffocation death.

Fire professionals said above, if the lack of good fire safety awareness, and put in the room with a lot of flammable fuel, that even if fitted with automatic sprinkler and smoke alarm, I'm afraid I won't help.

So, he thinks that in the current many lives in the fire load and fire risk is more and more big in the city, should be the priority concern is how to give the fire safety and lack of knowledge "to escape a generation that make up a missed lesson as soon as possible.

What else can we do with the victims of the hangzhou nannies?

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Finally, blunt elder brother want to say, in fact, greentown blue qianjiang district owner's anxiety, not simply from the mistrust of the property of fire protection system, but a deeper reason: because of the lack of the consciousness of the human society and the lag of relevant laws and regulations, even if a person more rich, live in a mansion, drove a luxury car, can also be difficult to get the real sense of security.

Therefore, how to eliminate the anxiety that is now almost in the society is an important topic that Chinese society needs to think seriously.

The old man of "blessing"

The custom of coin "blessing" has a long history, and this time someone has thrown a new frontier.

On the afternoon of the 27th, an octogenarian, who was boarding a plane, Cheap nfl jerseys china, threw a coin to the plane's engine to "bless", causing the flight to be delayed.

Some netizens joked that when the plane was "the coin machine". Actually this matter is not a joke at all, if not have a passenger to discover the report in time, really do not know how to cause accident and loss. It's a scary thought.

A handful of COINS, the all-plane passengers were stranded for more than four hours, and the elderly were questioned by the police, which was an annotation to the cost of unguarded rules.

The old man is believed to be a buddhist. But it may not be directly related to the monetary habit. Throughout the tourist sites, there are many non-master COINS in buddhist temples, but there are also many fans in the temple and in the temple. In fact, all kinds of scenic spots have "financial".

Buddha statues, ancient trees, water basins, especially the pools that raise fish, are so well known that even the dinosaur exhibition pools are filled with money for blessing. The "rich" tourists are "willful", which is not a single one, and all the pavilions and flowers and trees are all in the coin slot, even the three gorges hanging coffins can't get out of it. It is not known how the ancient people in the coffin received today's money.

The Chinese people have not been afraid of the money in the pool.

The "blessing" of the aircraft engine "blessing", the result almost throws a disaster, cheap snapbacks, such a lesson will let the coin "blessing" lover have convergence? Things may not be rosy. If people had studied the logic of the coin "blessing", they would have found the absurdity and irony.

Coin with the medieval Catholic church "blessing" logic is the same as the selling indulgences, are human wishful divine service "purchase" coin "blessing" is better than indulgences not only pay attention to.

Coin who doesn't care about the transaction object is who, whatever he is the jade emperor, the Buddha, guan gong, qin shubao, or a subject of tree, even if a terminator, iron man, the x-men, special-shaped, someone will buy it. The moneyman was thinking that if I spent the money, good luck would somehow come back in some way.

They also completely ignored the dignity of the gods. It is reported that the old man threw nine COINS to the engine "daffodil", two of which were five jiao COINS and seven COINS. Who is that, and this is the "golden body" of tens of millions of dollars, which is worth your little kindness? Don't get me wrong, I'm not encouraging a dollar bill.

You can't get lucky with a lot of COINS, but you can only buy low quality labels and put them on your head.

Good luck and good luck, it seems that the "bad" of bad habits is the nature of "low quality" to violate order or rule. These breaking rules may be unintentional, wholesale nfl jerseys, not malicious, but unconscious destruction is also destructive. The elderly are too sure that they don't want to pose a security risk to the aircraft, and the cost of breaking the rules is often unpredictable and sometimes overwhelming.

Therefore, it is important to understand this: coin "blessing", bad habits are not followed by the rules.

Here, I want to confess a story. Once I visited the museum, I found a piece of unearthed Buddha surrounded by COINS. In a rage, I pocketed the COINS. By the logic of the coin "blessing", I am god's mouth. But I just earned my ticket back and did a good deed. If you are a committed atheist or a rational believer, you are advised to learn from me, to "pick up" your family, to hide your name.

If people can't change the habit of throwing money, I suggest that the scenic spots follow the trend of "cashless society". The coin "blessing" lover won't mind the immortals opening mobile payment. Come, give a red envelope eight pieces eight, hongfu lucky to get home.

please do not spoil your (future) husband

Lin, my friend in China, she’s such an ideal traditional Chinese wife.

No one can compete with her for keeping 3-bedroom apartment as clean as a 6-star hotel.

She’s a career woman, cheap nfl jerseys, who works as a senior librarian in the police college; moreover, she needs to fulfil her duty as a police officer during public holidays.

Indeed, she is very busy.

After she gets up at 5 o’clock early in the morning, the first thing is to get a piece of cloth ready, cleaning the furniture, bedroom, kitchen and bathroom, the same as what she does when she’s back from work and on the weekends.

Day by day, year by year, even when her kid has grown up, she’s still doing the same thing.

I asked my friend:“Why you don’t let your husband give you a hand?”

“You gonna be joking?” Lin said: “He can only eat, sit or watch TV, I don't trust him anymore.”

Whereas her husband complained: “I don’t think I have freedom in my apartment, I can’t drop anything, and can’t make a mess, so I have to sit either in front of TV or computer.”

Every year when I went back China on holiday, I would love to catch up with Lin, but think about how busy she is, I just don’t wanna bother her.

Eventually, I added her on Wechat, how exciting!!!

I sent her one message, but never got replied. After a while I realized that she only set up a Wechat account, but never use it; even she doesn't use emails.

She seems like living in the 20s century; her life is only between family and workplace.


After marriage, quite a lot of Chinese women devote all their time and energy to kids and husband, which is understandable, cheap snapbacks, but “me” time is also essential.

Have you ever thought about having a cup of coffee for a nice chat with your old friends by spending a couple of hours a month?

Or have you ever considered joining activities for keeping yourself fit, e.g. yoga, swimming and make new friends?

Anything, as long as you can get out of daily routine, make your life interesting.

Because if you only focus on your husband or a boyfriend, you might have a high standard, which put high pressure on him, just give him some personal space.

Probably, you think it’s too luxury for you to afford the time.

That’s true, but it also depends on how you make a priority list.

If a woman has never considered herself as a unique person and has never tried to spend a few hours a week on her, then she can never find time, because there are always countless things to do.

Please delegate something your husband or kids can share with, e.g., washing, cleaning, and cooking; then you’ll be free do what you like.

It is not how busy you are, but you have never had an idea that you should regard yourself as a special person.

If you treat your husband like a kid, you know what will happen; he is not independent.

I met one businessman from China; he told me the most time he had instant noodles and simple meals during one week stay in Melbourne.

Because he had never done any cooking thing in China, let alone housework, all his wife and a cleaner do.

He’s a lucky man in China, that’s ok if he only stayed overseas for a very short time. If a little bit longer, he might have to learn how to cook proper meals.

For the young generation, the overseas Chinese students, no matter girls or boys, for being independent, cheap nfl hats, the basis skill is know how to cook, clean and tidy.

Someone argue: it doesn't matter; I can eat in the restaurant three meals a day as long as I can afford.

Then you might gain weight very soon, and you will lack veggies if you eat outside all day long.

And there’s little chance to find someone else cook for you; the labour cost is very high in Australia unless you are very wealthy, you will still have difficulties to find a person cook the meal exactly like your wife or Mum do.

Guys and girls, no matter how much money you earn, you are still not independent unless you know how to take care of yourself.

Then wherever you go, you don’t have to expect anyone else do it for you.

I’ve heard some Chinese men complain living in a western country, one thing, they have been spoilt for so long by wife, Mum and cleaners.

Now they have to rely on themselves, which make them a little bit uncomfortable.

I’ve also noticed most ladies enjoy living in Australia because they can earn money support themselves.

On the other hand, they don’t have to criticise themselves for not taking care of a man.

In China, if a lady doesn’t know how to look after a man, she might feel guilty: “Oh, I am not a good one.”

In a western country, it’s not unusual to share housework with a husband or a boyfriend.

For myself, I was born in a very traditional family in Shanghai, and my dad didn’t do any housework until he retired.  My mum was very busy between work and chores.

I was always been told and influenced by Dad: “A lady should do housework and take care of kids; that’s the responsibility of a man to earn money and support a family.”

Since I met my husband, instinctively, from my mum, I learned how to take care of him and family, it seemed like the only thing I can do in my life.

I did the washing, cleaning, tidying, picking up daughter from school and doing daily routines.

I was frustrated for being so busy no free time, cheap jerseys, I lost friends without joining any activities because I thought that’s the life supposed to be.

Whereas I didn’t feel happy, because on my mind, I only had husband and daughter, I was often getting upset for little things.

In return, I requested the same thing from husband: you should only put daughter and me in your mind, not even your born family.

My narrow mind was stuck, it was until I went abroad, gradually I have been accepting the new ideas.

I have my life back; I find “me” time, I stay in touch with friends and am joining activities I love.

I no longer feel sorry for not being a perfect traditional Chinese housewife, because my husband knows how to share housework with me, it’s not only my duty.

I am relieved now.

Therefore, ladies, please don’t complain your husband or a boyfriend for making yourself so busy.

First thing, you should change your mind and leave a bit time for yourself to do what you like, please don’t treat your (future) husband as a kid, give them space to grow, being an independent man.

New record in the NBA

On May 24, 2017, the NBA playoffs western conference finals because of the injury of Leonard no suspense, AT&T center yesterday in SAN Antonio, cheap ncaa jerseys, the warriors in a 129-115 victory over the SAN Antonio spurs again, in the western conference finals series total score 4-0 sweep. The warriors won the western conference championship in an unprecedented way and reached the finals.

SAN Antonio to the warriors

Throughout the history of the NBA, after only 1989 and 2001, the Los Angeles lakers have won 11 straight playoff start, after the third game of the spurs, the warriors had tied a record. Today, the warriors have won the first 12 games of the season, making them the first team to win the first 12 games of the season. With the victory, the warriors were 27-1 in the past 28 games.

The warriors are unstoppable in the playoffs, and it has a lot to do with durant's quick recovery and rapid integration into the team's system. Durant spoke of the chemical reaction with their garage: "we are accustomed to play against each other, when I was injured out for 20 games, it's a little bit upset the rhythm, now we are in the playoffs, we played a few games, cheap soccer jerseys, our chemical reaction is getting better and better..."

The warriors have already got a ticket to the finals, and no one knows who they are. The celtics struggled to compete with the cavaliers after losing Thomas, even though the celtics had their way back in the series. Durant said: "we have two days rest time, we will see what will happen tomorrow, but we understand these players, we know who is in their team, they are a big MAC, they are the defending champion, if they are through, we need to work very hard to beat them, but no matter how, we will be ready."

The Cleveland cavaliers have also had a smooth career ahead of the warriors, who have won 11 straight games in the playoffs. But a series of troubles with the celtics, perhaps a good thing for the cavaliers, can be a wake-up call. In contrast, the warriors, cheap MLB Hats, and SAN Antonio series just meet challenges, in the opening phase after game 3 win all too easily, the hard to avoid lets people worry when they face the knight will be slow.

He is so tired

The fourth battle of the eastern conference of Cleveland on May 24 was launched today. Before the ESPN reporter interviewed top NBA connor, cheap mlb jerseys, handsome card column seamus, seamus said in an interview card, the main reason for the third game James slump is that he was too tired.

ESPN experts talk about the third battle of zhan huang: he was dragged down by exhaustion

ESPN expert karel simo analyzed the game before the game

Connor: what's the reason the celtics are able to defeat the cavaliers in the third game?

Card seamus: is the celtics toughness, never give up, this team is incredible knight is not like the first dozen of general, they lead in the first half was 16 points, the third section will lead to 21 points, the result has been reversed, this is James led the greatest comeback in the playoffs. And the celtics were able to make three points out of the perimeter, bringing a twist to the game, and the cavaliers couldn't make the switch and start the fast break. The other cavaliers were able to make three points in the first half, cheap nba jerseys, which was a complete failure in the second half of the celtics' defense.

Connor: you gave the celtics a lot of praise, at the same time, James was scoreless in the fourth quarter, he seems not like yourself, third game what is wrong with James?

Carisimo: first of all, you have to face up to your opponents with a compliment, so I give the celtics a lot of praise. James looked a little tired. He looked like he had just been playing for 42 minutes or 45 minutes. He had just played two perfect matches in Boston, so it looked like a drag on both. He looked different. He had a careless ball, almost lost several times and six turnovers. As you said, when the score was close, James could not score in the fourth quarter, unlike him.

Connor: we've been to the east of the coronation ceremony, nfl jerseys cheap, because the knight has a chance to break the streak in the playoffs, the celtics suddenly put an end to all this, however, they even have a chance to equalise the fourth field. What do you think is the main story of the fourth scene?

Card seamus: I think the celtics toughness is the key, when we left Boston all kidding, because with the bull series, the celtics had to home 2-0 down, everyone thought the script could not have happened on the knight. But guess what? They have succeeded in half their success. In this league, you don't know what will happen in the next second. I don't want any injuries, but in the spurs and golden state games, Leonard sprained his ankle and the spurs were 23 points ahead. You need to hit a critical hit at a critical moment. The last time the cavaliers were just a little bit short of the 11-win streak, they gave the celtics a break. cheap nhl jerseys, The celtics are also aware that the next game will be ready.

112-99

Owen scored 42 points in the game, James added 34 points and five rebounds and six assists in 1 block, and love scored 17 points, wholesale jerseys, 17 rebounds and 5 assists and 1 steals 2 blocks. The celtics, Bradley had 19 points and five rebounds, and Claude had 18 points and eight rebounds, and hofford had 16 points and seven assists.

The game review

In the first quarter of the game, Claude made a foul in Owen's shooting and gave the cavaliers two free throws. At 6:21, Owen slipped and was snapped by horford. For the seventh minute, two seconds, the smart pass and Claude made a 3-pointer. The celtics played smoothly, with eight assists in the team, and one of them sent two passes to his teammates. The celtics had a 3-pointer, and the team made 10 3-pointers in this quarter, but only 30.00% of the time. In the first quarter, the game was set for 29-19 and the celtics took the lead.

In the third minute and five seconds, James fouled the celtics and gave the celtics three free throws. In the eighth minute, 14 seconds,cheap snapback hats,  JR Smith assists and Owen hits the mark. In the ninth minute of the second, he had a pass in the pass and was snapped up by deron. The celtics had a smooth run, with nine assists in the entire team, including two from horford. The cavaliers had a good sense of hand, shooting 64.71 percent of the field, outperforming the celtics' 47.62 percent, with Owen getting 12 points. At halftime, the celtics took a 10-point lead into the next quarter.

In a second, second, 52 seconds, Michael Owen, James jumper. In the fourth minute, 46 seconds, Owen dropped the ball and was snapped up by jerebuko. In the sixth minute, JR Smith fouled horford and gave the celtics two free throws. The celtics were in poor condition for six turnovers. The cavaliers had a good sense of hand, shooting 76.19 percent from the team, beating the celtics' 38.89%, and Owen scored 21 points. cheap jerseys, The cavaliers beat the score to 87-80 in the third quarter.

In the fourth quarter, in the 30th second, smart sent a subtle pass and horford made a 3-pointer. In the first minute, 27 seconds, Owen's brilliant biography, drung's jumper. Cornish fouled the celtics in 252 seconds and sent the celtics two free throws. The cavaliers had a good sense of hand, shooting 64.71 percent of the field, outperforming the celtics' 43.75 percent, Wholesale nfl jerseys, with James making 15 points. The game ended with a 112-99 victory over the celtics.

Starting lineup

Celtic: Bradley, Claude, horford, oreick, and smart

Knights: Owen, James, love, Thompson, JR Smith

breathtaking

Beijing time on May 24, in a home game against the celtics, Kevin low in the area is very active, and face the old rival kelly - ollie Nick, cheap nfl jerseys, loew nearly injured when rebound again.

In game 7 minutes 58 seconds of the third quarter, ollie Nick in dozen don't into the basket is strong, the players are mad screens to grabbing rebounds, he rushed up to ollie Nick from behind and want to take off in his head the boards. Was looks very normal, with the action but ollie Nick never give up easily, when low arm over his head, he directly to a cross arm hitting action, is very dangerous, slap directly hit the loew's face.

Loew was very miserable then, but luckily he was not hurt. To know in the first round of the playoffs in 2015, low face ollie Nick injuries suffered is very sad, because someone locks in the arm, a hard shoulder, for the season.

At the time, he was also very angry that he didn't feel the need to do so, and the big green man had a reputation for playing dirty.

This time, however, he didn't see who was coming up behind him, so there was no specificity. He has always had a lot of physical contact, cheap hats, and it's a regular thing to do so when he's fighting, so the referee has just played a common foul.

The only thing that could be said was that he had a bad luck, and once again he was shocked by the cold sweat of the fans. The knight will be able to defend his title.

Embarrassing thing

do you meet embrassing thing ? I met a neverous things last week examing test ,  I forgot how to write some of characters when I wrote the answer on the examination papers  by hand, it was really neverous ,I want to write "pinyin" to replace the chinese characters at that time.but I am afraid the examiner could not accept " pinyin" as replacement . I know the reason we are often forget to write characters when we take meeting notes , cheap jerseys, nowdays we always use computer and electronic tools to type character and replace the hand write , this is the trend of  social development.  fewer and fewer opportunities to write notes or articles by hand. the electronice tool can make us speed type characters ,we can take short time to complete excellent  job , and complete communicate with customer and supplier . so most of time we consider to improve communication skill. no need take time to  practice writtings. I always need to write some notes ,I think it is necessary to practice writtings for me .

Education

The temperature is warm and warm in the coming days, even the nursery education is hot than temperature, wholesale nfl jerseys, it is time for nursery entrance application. I saw a news about that over one thousand people lined up outside of the nursery school, including the children, about two hundred miles, even that, the temperature was nearly 30 degree.although it was limited about 300 to access. some of the parents try their best to let the child enter at any cost.that's one reason which promoted the price of house. Even that the government took much steps to decrease the influence. it was failed,especially this moment when the children prepare to enter school. Actually, so many parents buy the school district housing for their generations in China, especially in the past several years.It is no doubt that there are good resources, experienced teacher. We take overall focus on our kids' education when they grow up till graduation.It's hard to image that scene.Children is one part in our entire life, not all. I still believe that when they come to the world, as long as we guide them to upward, learning how to be a man, cheap nfl hats, a eligible value when they grow up.We always told us that we don't let our children lose on the ready line? how to define it ? we hard to image in our mind, give them a better education, take part in more tutorship and learn more acquirement although they do not like it.If we compare with transcript, no one can beat Chinese children, we take more time to learn with passiveness. How to transfer them into initiative. As a father, i don't want to control the life of my daughter, she is the director of her life.      

a boy

 A wisdom one after went through the mud, a strong one while entering the world or a sunshine ordinary one.

    A wisdom one, actually, cheap nfl jerseys, most of us are all armored in this fast growing society, sometime the position pinpoints what we prior to do. After through the asperities, we are instinctive to avert the abyss or be caught. I hardly appreciate this kind of people due to the life essence. Yes, i acknowledge to prone to be one of that group. The angle of assessing the thing, the veil of ways of thinking and the results driven. Sometime, short term goal and long term direction is opposite but you have to choose the pragmatic one even through it may not chosen from your bottom of your heart. Like you permeate the one in front of you, knowing what he may going on or the everything behind the scene which equip you to decipher everything just to assure you not to be involved.
    A strong one, with enough bravery or assertion. Sorry, i less in favor. Something too harsh is easily to be broken and effortlessly hurt the surroundings. Never painstaking on the road and egoism, after turning back to see the empty desolate.
    I very like the sunshine ordinary one, the purest smile and good soul. The boy outside my office is one of them. Goodhearted and stick to his heart. Say what he really think of and good attitude to the life. Good boy and hope you well in the future. That kind of people beautify the surroundings, cheap snapbacks, positive your mind and purify the air. Good scenery around you.

Let storms come straightly.

The words spoken out from your month,can you remember them all?How many promises have you obeyed？How many oppointments haven't you kept?Think it hard and then learn to shut up!
All the heroic sayings of the beginning seem so funny,everything on the earth is changing all the time.However, cheap nfl hats, man's changing mind is the quickest,in one second,you will not be able to recognize his face.Now I already adapt to these funny easy-changing faces.Just a game,nothing serious.
So saying is always more boring than doing,and I know that no one cares sincerity and credit nowadays.Slowly,keeping one's word becomes a luxury.Less and less positive energy in society.
This is my first time to refuse to donate,no matter how many teachers did it or how much they donated.Asked about nothing,and I on earth want to see what storms coming to me.
A kind heart is not for false, cheap oakley sunglasses, pleasing someone,or not for adding lustre to oneself.Not to do a thing like others who are doing unwilling things for different aims.Their faces never turn red while thinking of what they have said before.They only can turn faces instead of colours.
At this moment of me,just eager to be stronger,and have more power to protect family,not easily bullied by anyone.Experienced so much,being powerful is more important than false kindness,I think.
To be a strong and firm woman,I can't do like father, who has a kindest heart,yet sometimes bullied by others.
To be powerful to protect who I love.Never fear the outside storms,cheap jerseys, only to make me understand such a world and become firmer.

autocriticism

Many a time couldn't I cooled down my anger this year,I regretted for it very much.I don't wanna anything outside effect me,cheap nfl jerseys， however,it seems that it is impossible at all,or say my ability of self-control is too bad.Originally I have regarded myself as a person with a good mind-set,yet,I am wrong,overrated myself.I really need to self-examine,not outsiders disturbed me,instead,it's just because of taking myself too seriously.I can't always live in my own perfect world,which is my real fault.To accept all words,bad or even worse.In fact,under those masks,countless true words from the bottom of each person which we can't accept or make us angry.False seems better than hurt.

Only in experiences can I know myself better,bad mood is temporary,learning to quiet mind is a lesson we should spend a lifetime in.
Try to imagine we are the lowest position,maybe we can lose all angers.To find a quieter place to read books from tomorrow,cheap snapbacks， fighting is farther away and I feel so empty because I didn't take good use of working-time.Sometimes I can't persist one thing too long,really incapable!
Never ask for trouble,this is my first year to understand deeply how hard to get on with many mid-aged women.Not saying a word is not realistic,but each time,no matter how much I say or what I say,I feel all of them waste,boring,even including myself.I understood slowly my sister's words that working is not tired,but being with colleagues is a terrible thing.
The people aged 40 have no puzzles.Near to such an age,it never makes me panic,just a number.However,it brings me some troubles,seeing the society's and man's ugliness makes me lose all zeals.Sometimes I wonder whether to look clearly those,in short,not so good.However I don't want be a fool or pretend.I think I should try to contain dirtiness,cheap replica oakleys， not only eagering niceness.It's meaningless.

Think back the days of twenty years ago,seeing everything clean and nice,heart is pure.To tell those youth,to cherish their sincerity each other and it will be a treasure of the whole life.After all those days never return forever.Although my some sincere emotions have gone,the feelings they brings me never fade.
I am sure when I adapt to all surroundings,then less can effect me,I maybe put on the same mask as others',however my heart will never be changed.I think many people are doing such a thing.This is society! we are changing for it.Maybe one day,wholesale nfl jerseys， something makes me do dirty things.So your things are yours,not others,and it's with others.

Pilipino works in HK

I read a story from CCTV news this morning, an interview program about one Philippine girl works in HK.
I don’t know how old is she, she looks very young about 20 years old, she was born at a family which is just meet end and no enough money realize her dream, nfl jerseys cheap, to be a photographer. A camera is about 12 thousands cost about three month salary for her is really impossible to have one. She gave up the education at her ages and find a job to support the family, after she knew her mother refused to buy a camera for her and tell her to be photographer is rich people life, she was trying to borrow the money from her company, fortunate her boss was kind and knows she is clever enough on photos, that’s why right now there are so many black and white photos from her to publish on the newspaper, she is a little famous by her efforts, there is a photo show in HK all are from her pictures, the most of them to tell world how is the Pilipino life in HK, but still hard to meet her needs, like to travel the world if to be a professional photographer, the major problems at present is helping her sisters and brother to the school, that’s why she is still working in HK.
Everyone has the dreams and creative ideas in their life, just because of the real life makes them hesitating and holding up the sunny thoughts. In contrary, some of guys have enough economy either from their strong parents or from others, but they are willing to enjoy the happy life, cheap hats, satisfy with current peaceful life, no desire to do better, the bars and ktv are the regular home, totally to be a losers, we should alarm those guys louder, let them to know this is new century you will not be welcomed.

over or on

those days could be the busiest and riddenest time for me. as a graduate, I had to run to different job fairs in different schools. regularly, cheap nfl hats, there is two job fairs in two schools. I have no time to do other things. attenting camepus recruitment is quite wasting time. but, I have no choice. for this is the possible chance for your job. every job fair was full of thousands of graduates, It seemed like to be a festival gathering. positions are insufficient,employment pressure is very severe. the economy  is slowing down, many companies in south provinces near coastal areas are said to go bankrup unfortunately, my school was always the last stop for the campus recruitment. many campanies had finished the recruitment index. it was just the form to have career talk!!! ok, this was just wasting our time.  joining in the campus talk in other school is quite competitive and stressful. because, other schools have a better faculty and reputation. It took me for two months to get a job. It was tough and struggling.every night, I had to think of the question''what if I don't get a job, I am jobless?what a shame!!!" this magical sentence just circle arould my head . until I got asleep....maybe this is the necessary step to look for a job. something full of struggling, sufferings, hope, endeavors...once you have exprenced, replica oakley sunglasses, you will never forget its taste...
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imtemperance

 Imtemperance, born with you.
    Awareness or unawareness.
    With my dark lesson, i gauge the food, nfl jerseys china, the drink i do with some degree caution in case any discomfort of digestion.
    So far so good, of course little imperfection existed over the course of whole orbit.
    Last week, a newly opened sorrouding eatery attracted my eyesight while the hot temperature greatly diminished my appetite, i glimpsed the shop inside environment, the hygiene and cast aside foodstuff package of trusted brand outside the gate made me sit consent.
    OK, I know it is a junk food, but i think i could be Ok for once.
    Then, the stmoach braver than digestion system, imterperance conquered self-consciousness, twice and third time into the shop with little noticed signs sending from the body. I just did not lift enough to alert myself even though portion ordered decreased in the following times.
    Regrettable suffering would not be long in the coming. And no return, undertaking the consequence, what i am sure is the eartery now on my blacklist.
    Ironically, congratulate myself on backing the track--no coffee, cheap Oakley sunglasses, bland food and less portion make up the loss of weight which to smooth the burden of digestion processes.
    So ada, you are destined to skip away to junk food, once is enough and forever to you.

Guilt for My Mother

It was until nowadays that I realized my mom would't have a mom any longer from three years ago. It hurt me deeply. Just before then I never considered this problem seriously. I feel guilty of her at the moment.
I always consider maternal love a matter of course. Seldom will I appreciate her care overmuch. Even when I am in low spirits, I feel kind of fed up with her. I don't have much patience, cheap nfl jerseys, which always made her confused. Even her naughty daughter will dislike and avoid the food she cooked and the inconceivable things she had done, not to mention playing woman with her. So now I can't imagine how she pulled through and loved such a daughter like me. I feel deep self-accusation. Even though she's a spellable woman, she has the fullest love to me and inside of heart, she wants to be a consummate mother for me. Therefore, she's always nothing but my marvelous mother.
So loving her and valuing her will be my fortune.

My Best Teacher

My best teacher is my Chinese teacher in the middle school. She is a slim and pretty lady who has black curly hair and a hooked nose.One of the most significant reasons I like her is her infinite kindness, cheap mlb hats, compassion, and charity. When she talks to others, she always has a big smile on her face which is like the warmest sunshine. To us, she is more than a teacher, but an intimate friend. I can still clearly remember that day which was as exterme cold as today. Several weeks before the college entrance examination, I failed my Math test. I felt very depressed and didn't know what to do. That evening I didn't have the dinner. She saw me sitting in the classroom alone as if in a trance. She asked me why I didn't go to the cafeteria. I said I was not hungry. But actually I was in no mood to eat. When she came back, she asked me to go to her office. As I arrived, cheap oakley sunglasses, I found she had prepared a lovely dinner for me. It moved me deeply and until today I still feel how lucky I am to have a teacher like her.

An accident I will never forget

That happened when I was in junior high school.
A TV show called The Legendary Swordsman seemed to be all the rage at that time. From this, fake oakley sunglasses, I learned a person named Dongfangbubai and also a word ''Zigong( autocastration)''.
One day, I wanted to play a trick on my deskmate. I turned my head and stared at him, said, " do you know Dongfangbubai?
" He shook his head interrogatively. I smiled and continued, "have you ever been", a sudden voice interrupted me. A student said, "ziwei. '' It is the name of one of my classmates. At this moment, I didn't know what attacked my brain and I mixed up the two words. "Have you ever been ziwei( masturbation)?"
I heard I asked that. He looked at me with an indescribable expression in his eyes and nodded hesitantly. " Aha, I see
". In my heart, I laughed at him because he fell into the trap. "Do you know 'ziwei
'?"
A male student who has a good relationship with me asked that. I tilted my head back and answered, "Yup. It means console oneself." I didn't want to let my deskmate know it. After all, he was still sitting by me. So I explained to him with literal Get Word. He looked at me with amazement. Why did he look me like this?
I felt something went wrong. So after school I checked it on the Internet. Oh!
My life ends today. My cute image was broken out. I can't face them. Luckily, wholesale jerseys, on the second day they didn't talk about it anymore. I took a long sigh in relief.They must have forgotten about it.
But what I think is too naive. They talked about it at the party of junior high school not long ago. It seems that I can't get rid of this all my life.

The Depression

He committed suicide at home, finally and precisely, at September 16, 22:00p.m.
When I heard the news that night, cheap jerseys, I was really shocked. I just could not believe it!
So I surfed the internet and saw so much news about his death. The character of the news was a new singer and actor who was becoming more and more popular these years. He died of depression, a kind of psychological illness which is not so concerned by the public. But his death made us think a lot. He was considered to be a cheerful and sunny boy who had a warm smile. Nevertheless, what he showed to the public was not the real him. I read his blog after his death and I found the reason why he chose to end his life. He wrote, what he really wanted to do was singing while he was forced to be an actor just because that is a better way to become popular. Thus he had to live a life which he hated. Another reason contributing to his death was the cyber-violence. Nowadays people can say whatever they want to say on the internet and need not take responsibility for it. So many people may criticize or even cavil at others with some malicious words. He was under considerable stress by what people's comments on him on the internet. Finally he became a depressive and that made him die.
Depression is a terrible illness which is quite different from upset----the emotion that sometimes we all have. cheap snapback hats, We need to pay enough attention to it. Do not give yourself too much stress. On the contrary, live a happy and healthy life. Always see the optimistic side of a thing and you will find life is full of hope.

Cars in our daily life

With the development of the society, the number of private cars has sharply risen. There is no doubt that car plays a significant role in our daily life. People can drive to some places conveniently and quickly. Meanwhile when we meet the emergency, cheap oakley sunglasses, car can help us a lot.
However, every coin has two sides. Although cars have many advantages, their disadvantages can't be ignored. Firstly, increasing private cars leads to traffic jam. It is not hard to see the hundreds of cars blocking in the intersection especially on holiday. Secondly, many cars lead to the air pollution. Therefore it is high time that we took actions towards these problems. First, encouraging people to take the public transportation is necessary. At the same time, the budget of transportation facilities should increase.Some transportation can be used to improve the traffic condition, such as airbus which can save places to a great extent. Creating an environment that people prefer to take public transportation. By the way, public transportation is as convenient as private cars nowadays. Besides, in order to solve the traffic problems, cars should be limited by plate number of the car in some particular places and time, especially the center business district and driving speed should be limited in a reasonable range. More underground passageway should be built for passengers safety and promoting traffic condition. For long plan, government can expand some main roads and promote the road condition for a safe driving which is quite important. Besides, underground places should be used to some degrees,cheap jerseys, several tunnels and underground parking lots can also have a good effect on traffic problems.
At last, I appeal to take more public transportation for environmental development. As citizens, we need to make the city more beautiful instead of endless cars on the road, and we also need to protect the environment.

Lies Are Not Always Evil

Most of us ever told lies for different reasons. Although some lies are malevolent, there are others that lack evil intent, wholesale nfl jerseys, which are called white lies. To some extends, the harmless lies are inevitable and essential in daily life.
You may find that children can even tell lies. According to the study upon children all over the world, lying is really a typical part of development in a person's life. And good lying requires two key ingredients. The first one is the mind-reading ability. It is the ability to know that different people have different ideas in the same situation and to discriminate between what I know and what you know. The second one is self control. It is the ability to control speech, facial expression and body language. As it turns out, those abilities are essential for people to function well in society. Besides, people need to tell white lies to avoid hurting others' feelings or show respects to them. For example, if my friend invites me to have dinner,cheap nfl hats, I will say the food is wonderful though I dislike it. But do remember not to tell lies which are against morals, for the trust and discipline are necessary in society.

What Role Should A Friend Be?

Yesterday morning, one of my good friends in senior high school told me that she was not in the mood. She said that her boyfriend is so busy that he even can be called as a workaholic. Besides,cheap replica oakleys, as they are in a long distance relationship, they can hardly talk for one word after a whole day. Then she came to ask me whether I chat with my boyfriend every day. I respond yes without the second thought.Later, I retold it to my boyfriend and questioned him what should I say to comfort her. He instantly said that I should not tell her that we contact each other every day, oppositely, I should describe a much more miserable situation of my relationship with him. As he thought friend is a role to make the other one be happy and get out of trouble. I was very shocked because I originally thought that what I should do is to help her improve their relationship rather to tell a lie to make her be happy and cover up the truth that there does exist a problem. So this makes me get into a thought that what role should a friend be.

my views on traffic jams

Frankly, the number of private cars is increasing at a very fast rate, traffic congestion has been a headache for both citizens and the government. Now that traffic problems become so troublesome,cheap nfl jerseys, it is not time for finding out who is to blame, we should work together to ease traffic jams.
As far as I am concerned, since we are aware of the severity of it, as a member of the civilized society, we should try every effort to avoid using car if it is not necessary, in this way, we can not only save money and natural resources, but also have much more time to exercise, in the era of information exploded, it is quite precious for us. In addition, we can also relax ourselves and greet our neighborhoods, it is also a golden chance to accompany our families and communicate with them, which can also enhance the emotional bond.
Apparently, it is not enough to unify the power of citizens, the government can take useful actions as well. Although new roads are being opened and existing one are being widened,cheap snapbacks, traffic jams are still a daily occurrence, they can find the origin of the problem, for example, control the production of private cars and dispatch more traffic directors. Besides, they can dig pedestrian underpass,which only pedestrians can be allowed , anyone who violates the regulation should be fined. Only in this way can reduce the amount of traffic accidents and ease traffic congestion on the ground.
In a word, if there is a question, it can never be solved by single one. I firmly believe that both together do best of all.

Knowledge and wisdom

People like to talk about the relationship between knowledge and wisdom, but they cannot talk through it. However, it does relate to our study, education, life, technology and other sides.
"Knowledge" can be explained that "people's systematic cognition of facts in the physical universe" but wisdom cannot be defined simply. For wisdom is always confused with ability and smart, even we consult all reference books, cheap replica oakleys, we cannot get a satisfying explanation.
Differ to others opinion; I think knowledge is a basement of wisdom. We can't image a man who is wise but ignorant. As a wise man, Zhu Geliang can use the trap of "borrowing the East wind" mostly because he is conversant with chronometer and geography. The reason why Sai Wen could have his horse again after he "lost his horse" was that he knew the habitus of his horse. As a result, Aristotle said that sometimes, wholesale nfl jerseys, wisdom is a kind of knowledge.
However, knowledge isn't absolutely equal to wisdom. An illiterate person may deal with a complex problem simply while a professor of philosophy may do something stupid on some simple problems.
Confucius said "Learning without thought means labour lost, thought without learning is perilous"; the "learning" can be known as achieving knowledge while the "thought" can be known as using knowledge and develop wisdom.
Knowledge can be occupied while wisdom only can be elaborated; knowledge can be achieved from outside while wisdom only can be sensed from inside; cheap nfl hats, knowledge can be achieved more and more while wisdom can be improved higher and higher. Lao-tzu said "when we study, we should learn more and more.However, when we seek for truth, we should reduce our own subjective thoughts."
For intelligence, knowledge is divided into various subjects while wisdom is direct; knowledge is objective, coincident and logistic while wisdom is subjective, individual and creative; knowledge belongs to neither evil nor good while wisdom can be good or evil. Finally, knowledge is deduced, summarized and applied by wisdom.
Ability is a part of application of wisdom; smart can be defined as narrow sensed wisdom.
Wisdom cannot be completely summarized by words-it includes the concordance of emotion, character, conception, moral integrity, dispositions, times, terrains and other factors. And the highest realm of it is "a master looks like a fool". So, we should define the conception clearly. cheap oakley sunglasses, Artificial intelligence can only replace knowledge, ability and smart. However, it can never take the place of people's wisdom.

Water Supply Back to Normal

I woke up very early this morning due to the water supply finally back to normal this morning. Before I was set off to my office ,it spent me about two hours to keep my room tidy , cheap nfl jerseys, washed my hair , took shower as well. After finished all work, I can have a deep breath to see everything is clean.

I think nobody can bear this situation for continue four days without running water. Actually, in China, some area is dry and lack of running water, I cannot imagine what my life would be if put me in that living condition. We can learn a lesson this time, cheap snapbacks, and we can save adequate water at normal days for fear that water cut off suddenly would affects us too much. But I think I will not do that. Since water failure and power failure happens rarely in my rental house. I am very sleepy and cannot focus on my work now. What I really expect is that try to go to bed early tonight and forget about this unpleasant experience.

There is a long story to tell.

Last year I got divorce,which I am completely unwilling,but I have no choice because my ex-husband and his parents stick to.  Maybe someone will ask why you need to divorce.  There is  a long story to tell. I got married in 8th MARCH 2015 and get divorce on 11 NOVEMBER 2016. At first, we got on well with each other.  My ex-husband's family is poor, while we got married ，their family was in debt and their parents always asked me to pay off the debt. However I refuse, because my  ex-husband's younger brother has been married and had a son,and their parents raise the grandson for his younger son,  still young and did not got jobs and always asked me to take the money out to pay the debt for them.    

The main reason  my husband did not have a job at that time and I need to earn money to support the family. My husband did not have a good job at first and  I hope he can get a good job and he resigned the job and studied the advertisement design at home  which made me disappointed was that he learned nothing. At that time I felt great pressure and I got the schizophrenia again and I went to the hospital again and he knew I got disease before while at that time he accompanied me to cure the disease for  3 months in the hospital. I showed my THANKS to him. 

Later their parents discover I got that kind disease and strongly disagree our marriage. For this kind of disease , it is not good for me to have a baby. At first my husband is hesitated whether to divorce or not. For their parents  attitude, later he decided to divorce with me. 

However in my deep heart, I love him and I do not want to leave him. Now, he left me and I have heard that he is pursuing other girl .

Why will I  feel uncomfortable now ?   and I hope he will not have  a girlfriend any more  and hope I  have another chance  in  the future. Who can help me? Help me to come out.