Tuesday, June 27, 2017

The hangzhou nanny fire case

Yesterday, it was the first seven...
The picture shows the father of three dead children
At the moment, however, except for mourning the dead, the victim's family and many of the same life in hangzhou greentown blue qianjiang district owner, also continue to cross-examine developer greentown, such a question: why do they spent tens of millions of buying a person of extraordinary powers curtilage, cheap nfl hatsand high property costs per month, but it has not been in when they meet danger, give them a sense of security.
Among them, the families of the victims who accused the property security guards of claiming that there was no one in the house where the fire broke out, which led to the delay in the rescue. But more owners were alarmed by the fact that the property had to notify them in a "raw" way of knocking on the door, without warning that they were on fire.
However, greentown on June 22, in addition to the fire occurred the same day has given a brief response, no any subsequent, the response is claimed to have fire control facilities are operating normally, after it refused to give any explanation, for the owners to fire departments such as the results of a survey.
What else can we do with the victims of the hangzhou nannies?
Online to emerge after a green city group within the basic process and "hangzhou 6.22 fire accident report", which revealed the mansion's floor is not installed the fire alarm, only fire alarm; But said after the fire, alarm is normal work, notify the security, fire control broadcast also normal boot, just because the owner was fast asleep, and the sound insulation effect is good, did not hear the fire broadcasting, arranged from door knocking at the door, check the security team, evacuees.
In addition, the report said the local government confirmed the fire disposal work in green city, saying it was because of the rapid reaction of green city that it did not cause more deaths.
What can we do about the victims of the hangzhou nanny fire victims' first seven?
However, the "briefings" did not quell the doubts of the families of the dead and other owners. Instead, they intensified their discontent and attacked the group. The reason is simple: four people died in the fire, cheap jerseysbut the "report on the situation" did not mention the tragic result, nor did it express condolences to the victims.
Of course, this may be because green city feels that the criminal case caused by arson is irrelevant. But it was not until yesterday the victims of the "seven", in the face of pressure from family members and the public, greentown group is no longer on the website, the official weibo and WeChat channels made any response to the content of the public and the family members, no more mourned the content even the relevant contents of the fire, the strategy is clearly inappropriate.
The picture is from the microblog of the relatives of the dead
As a result, online criticism of greentown has intensified. Geng has also written an article calling on greentown to respond to the public, but it is regrettable that there has been no active response from greentown today.
The fear and anxiety of the owner of the green city blue qianjiang community have not dissipated. A village resident told uprightness elder brother, they did not notice after the fire, the hangzhou's most upscale residential area in each layer of households only elevator and former nanny elevator has two smoke fire alarm, although also is equipped with fire hydrant, but some of the fire hydrant door opens up very laborious, security guards are broken into half a day.
Video screenshot of the security guard in green city is trying to open a fire hydrant door, from netizen @xu guanhua micro blog
At the same time, there is no smoke alarm or automatic sprinkler system in the household.
Blunt elder brother query related information and consulting professionals, at present our country law mandatory only office buildings and public places more populated area to install smoke alarm and automatic sprinkler system, housing is not mandatory.
So developers will not be able to give households a fire system that is already ubiquitous in homes in western countries such as Britain and America.
, of course, the Chinese high lampblack cooking methods, as well as for house is beautiful and the trouble reason, many commercial housing buyers oneself also doesn't support in the house to install smoke alarm and automatic sprinkler system.
What else can we do with the victims of the hangzhou nannies?
However, after a nanny arson, June 22, hangzhou, under the drive of anxiety and panic, live in blue qianjiang district of many owners have begun to own tens of millions of homes without these devices.
At the same time, also appeared online about whether it should be called for countries to modify relevant laws and regulations, mandatory least residents of high-rise residential buildings must be equipped with a smoke alarm and automatic fire extinguishing equipment. After all, the fire data of the past five years show that the victims of China's fire have mainly concentrated in the homes of ordinary residents, with the 2016 data showing that the fire killed 1,266 people and injured 713 people. The fire destroyed 107 people and injured 134 people. The factory fire killed 41 people and injured 55; Traffic tools fire killed 17 people and injured 30 people; There were 12 people and 22 injured in the fire.
In fact, there have been some scholars in the past few years who have called for China to adjust its rules and regulations, Wholesale jerseysto learn that the homes of at least high-rise residential buildings are equipped with a smoke alarm and automatic fire-extinguishing equipment.
What else can we do with the victims of the hangzhou nannies?
What else can we do with the victims of the hangzhou nannies?
However, a fire professional interviewed by geng was different. He believes that anxious owners or developers can of course install independent smoke alarms in their homes. After all, there is no mistake. But a more expensive automatic fire extinguishing system is much harder to popularize.
Hangzhou nanny arson after all, he said, is artificial outlet, if because of the extreme occasional case will modify the laws and regulations, improve the fire cost of the building, and even cause against the owner of the dispute, some wandering.
He also said that, in fact, in addition to the very occasional arson, a lot of fire in the residence can be avoided in advance, because although the fire can be sudden, but fire hidden trouble is fixed. It is more meaningful to eliminate these hidden dangers in advance and learn to save themselves in emergency situations than to explore whether it is mandatory to install automatic fire extinguishing systems.
What else can we do with the victims of the hangzhou nannies?
Fire in 2016, according to China's most fire at night, and given priority to with electrical use undeserved, but the main reason for death is not burned to death, but with the hangzhou of arson four the cause of death of the deceased, give priority to with suffocation death.
Fire professionals said above, if the lack of good fire safety awareness, and put in the room with a lot of flammable fuel, that even if fitted with automatic sprinkler and smoke alarm, I'm afraid I won't help.
So, he thinks that in the current many lives in the fire load and fire risk is more and more big in the city, should be the priority concern is how to give the fire safety and lack of knowledge "to escape a generation that make up a missed lesson as soon as possible.
What else can we do with the victims of the hangzhou nannies?
Finally, blunt elder brother want to say, in fact, greentown blue qianjiang district owner's anxiety, not simply from the mistrust of the property of fire protection system, but a deeper reason: because of the lack of the consciousness of the human society and the lag of relevant laws and regulations, even if a person more rich, live in a mansion, drove a luxury car, can also be difficult to get the real sense of security.
Therefore, how to eliminate the anxiety that is now almost in the society is an important topic that Chinese society needs to think seriously.

The old man of "blessing"

The custom of coin "blessing" has a long history, and this time someone has thrown a new frontier.
On the afternoon of the 27th, an octogenarian, who was boarding a plane, Cheap nfl jerseys chinathrew a coin to the plane's engine to "bless", causing the flight to be delayed.
Some netizens joked that when the plane was "the coin machine". Actually this matter is not a joke at all, if not have a passenger to discover the report in time, really do not know how to cause accident and loss. It's a scary thought.
A handful of COINS, the all-plane passengers were stranded for more than four hours, and the elderly were questioned by the police, which was an annotation to the cost of unguarded rules.
The old man is believed to be a buddhist. But it may not be directly related to the monetary habit. Throughout the tourist sites, there are many non-master COINS in buddhist temples, but there are also many fans in the temple and in the temple. In fact, all kinds of scenic spots have "financial".
Buddha statues, ancient trees, water basins, especially the pools that raise fish, are so well known that even the dinosaur exhibition pools are filled with money for blessing. The "rich" tourists are "willful", which is not a single one, and all the pavilions and flowers and trees are all in the coin slot, even the three gorges hanging coffins can't get out of it. It is not known how the ancient people in the coffin received today's money.
The Chinese people have not been afraid of the money in the pool.
The "blessing" of the aircraft engine "blessing", the result almost throws a disaster, cheap snapbackssuch a lesson will let the coin "blessing" lover have convergence? Things may not be rosy. If people had studied the logic of the coin "blessing", they would have found the absurdity and irony.
Coin with the medieval Catholic church "blessing" logic is the same as the selling indulgences, are human wishful divine service "purchase" coin "blessing" is better than indulgences not only pay attention to.
Coin who doesn't care about the transaction object is who, whatever he is the jade emperor, the Buddha, guan gong, qin shubao, or a subject of tree, even if a terminator, iron man, the x-men, special-shaped, someone will buy it. The moneyman was thinking that if I spent the money, good luck would somehow come back in some way.
They also completely ignored the dignity of the gods. It is reported that the old man threw nine COINS to the engine "daffodil", two of which were five jiao COINS and seven COINS. Who is that, and this is the "golden body" of tens of millions of dollars, which is worth your little kindness? Don't get me wrong, I'm not encouraging a dollar bill.
You can't get lucky with a lot of COINS, but you can only buy low quality labels and put them on your head.
Good luck and good luck, it seems that the "bad" of bad habits is the nature of "low quality" to violate order or rule. These breaking rules may be unintentional, wholesale nfl jerseysnot malicious, but unconscious destruction is also destructive. The elderly are too sure that they don't want to pose a security risk to the aircraft, and the cost of breaking the rules is often unpredictable and sometimes overwhelming.
Therefore, it is important to understand this: coin "blessing", bad habits are not followed by the rules.
Here, I want to confess a story. Once I visited the museum, I found a piece of unearthed Buddha surrounded by COINS. In a rage, I pocketed the COINS. By the logic of the coin "blessing", I am god's mouth. But I just earned my ticket back and did a good deed. If you are a committed atheist or a rational believer, you are advised to learn from me, to "pick up" your family, to hide your name.
If people can't change the habit of throwing money, I suggest that the scenic spots follow the trend of "cashless society". The coin "blessing" lover won't mind the immortals opening mobile payment. Come, give a red envelope eight pieces eight, hongfu lucky to get home.

Wednesday, June 14, 2017

please do not spoil your (future) husband

Lin, my friend in China, she’s such an ideal traditional Chinese wife.

No one can compete with her for keeping 3-bedroom apartment as clean as a 6-star hotel.

She’s a career woman, cheap nfl jerseyswho works as a senior librarian in the police college; moreover, she needs to fulfil her duty as a police officer during public holidays.

Indeed, she is very busy.

After she gets up at 5 o’clock early in the morning, the first thing is to get a piece of cloth ready, cleaning the furniture, bedroom, kitchen and bathroom, the same as what she does when she’s back from work and on the weekends.

Day by day, year by year, even when her kid has grown up, she’s still doing the same thing.

I asked my friend:“Why you don’t let your husband give you a hand?”

“You gonna be joking?” Lin said: “He can only eat, sit or watch TV, I don't trust him anymore.”

Whereas her husband complained: “I don’t think I have freedom in my apartment, I can’t drop anything, and can’t make a mess, so I have to sit either in front of TV or computer.”

Every year when I went back China on holiday, I would love to catch up with Lin, but think about how busy she is, I just don’t wanna bother her.

Eventually, I added her on Wechat, how exciting!!!

I sent her one message, but never got replied. After a while I realized that she only set up a Wechat account, but never use it; even she doesn't use emails.

She seems like living in the 20s century; her life is only between family and workplace.


After marriage, quite a lot of Chinese women devote all their time and energy to kids and husband, which is understandable, cheap snapbacksbut “me” time is also essential.

Have you ever thought about having a cup of coffee for a nice chat with your old friends by spending a couple of hours a month?

Or have you ever considered joining activities for keeping yourself fit, e.g. yoga, swimming and make new friends?

Anything, as long as you can get out of daily routine, make your life interesting.

Because if you only focus on your husband or a boyfriend, you might have a high standard, which put high pressure on him, just give him some personal space.

Probably, you think it’s too luxury for you to afford the time.

That’s true, but it also depends on how you make a priority list.

If a woman has never considered herself as a unique person and has never tried to spend a few hours a week on her, then she can never find time, because there are always countless things to do.

Please delegate something your husband or kids can share with, e.g., washing, cleaning, and cooking; then you’ll be free do what you like.

It is not how busy you are, but you have never had an idea that you should regard yourself as a special person.

If you treat your husband like a kid, you know what will happen; he is not independent.

I met one businessman from China; he told me the most time he had instant noodles and simple meals during one week stay in Melbourne.

Because he had never done any cooking thing in China, let alone housework, all his wife and a cleaner do.

He’s a lucky man in China, that’s ok if he only stayed overseas for a very short time. If a little bit longer, he might have to learn how to cook proper meals.

For the young generation, the overseas Chinese students, no matter girls or boys, for being independent, cheap nfl hatsthe basis skill is know how to cook, clean and tidy.

Someone argue: it doesn't matter; I can eat in the restaurant three meals a day as long as I can afford.

Then you might gain weight very soon, and you will lack veggies if you eat outside all day long.

And there’s little chance to find someone else cook for you; the labour cost is very high in Australia unless you are very wealthy, you will still have difficulties to find a person cook the meal exactly like your wife or Mum do.

Guys and girls, no matter how much money you earn, you are still not independent unless you know how to take care of yourself.

Then wherever you go, you don’t have to expect anyone else do it for you.

I’ve heard some Chinese men complain living in a western country, one thing, they have been spoilt for so long by wife, Mum and cleaners.

Now they have to rely on themselves, which make them a little bit uncomfortable.

I’ve also noticed most ladies enjoy living in Australia because they can earn money support themselves.

On the other hand, they don’t have to criticise themselves for not taking care of a man.

In China, if a lady doesn’t know how to look after a man, she might feel guilty: “Oh, I am not a good one.”

In a western country, it’s not unusual to share housework with a husband or a boyfriend.

For myself, I was born in a very traditional family in Shanghai, and my dad didn’t do any housework until he retired.  My mum was very busy between work and chores.

I was always been told and influenced by Dad: “A lady should do housework and take care of kids; that’s the responsibility of a man to earn money and support a family.”

Since I met my husband, instinctively, from my mum, I learned how to take care of him and family, it seemed like the only thing I can do in my life.

I did the washing, cleaning, tidying, picking up daughter from school and doing daily routines.

I was frustrated for being so busy no free time, cheap jerseysI lost friends without joining any activities because I thought that’s the life supposed to be.

Whereas I didn’t feel happy, because on my mind, I only had husband and daughter, I was often getting upset for little things.

In return, I requested the same thing from husband: you should only put daughter and me in your mind, not even your born family.

My narrow mind was stuck, it was until I went abroad, gradually I have been accepting the new ideas.

I have my life back; I find “me” time, I stay in touch with friends and am joining activities I love.

I no longer feel sorry for not being a perfect traditional Chinese housewife, because my husband knows how to share housework with me, it’s not only my duty.

I am relieved now.

Therefore, ladies, please don’t complain your husband or a boyfriend for making yourself so busy.

First thing, you should change your mind and leave a bit time for yourself to do what you like, please don’t treat your (future) husband as a kid, give them space to grow, being an independent man.